April Foiles

Follow Your Passion?

October 16, 2016 by April

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Don’t Follow Your Passion?

I started thinking about the advice to follow your passions as a way to find career success and satisfaction earlier this year when I read

“So Good they Can’t Ignore You – Why Skills Trump Passion in the Quest for Work.” by educator and writer Cal Newport.

Newport argues passionately about the perils of following your Passion, and makes a strong case for building skills as the way towards job satisfaction. Skills, not passion, he says can earn you a great job with the factors that provide job satisfaction, which are:

  1. Creativity
  2. Impact
  3. Control

He says that the advice to choose our career by following our passions has harmed us; leaving people endlessly searching for what their “true” calling is, or trying to scrape together a living doing what should rightly be a hobby.

Follow Your Passions?

Given his premise, I thought it was fascinating, as I continued to read, that he presented example after example of people following their passions and becoming successful and happy in their careers. Yet he was using those examples to bolster his claim that we should not follow our passions.

How could he and I look at the same evidence and see it so differently?

Passion is on a Continuum

We must listen to the whispers of interest and curiosity whether or not we hear the roar of passion.

Newport seems to conceptualize passion as an all consuming flame. And he concedes that some few people like athletes and musicians might have started their careers with this single minded desire and focus.  But for the rest of us, Newport writes, we can’t use passion to guide our way. We have to find other ways into passion.

I agree that there are other ways into passion than just noticing our innate desires. However, we all do have innate desires towards activities and fields of study; it’s just that on the less intense end of the spectrum they manifest themselves as interests or curiosities. It is one of the keys to a fulfilled life to notice those interests and curiosities and follow them out even if they don’t seem logical.

Passion is not Destiny

Newport conflates passion with destiny. Embedded in his warnings about passion are warnings about believing we need to find our one true calling, our one true path.

If I hadn’t read The Path by Michael Puett

before reading Cal Newport’s book, I don’t know if I would have been able understand the impact of what Newport was sharing.

In “The Path,” Puett writes explicitly about our Western presumption that there is a calling we must find, a destiny. Puett contrasts this belief with the teachings of Chinese philosophers. Like Newport, Puett argues that the belief in destiny has made our live less fulfilling and limited us. I found this idea incredibly intriguing and will share more about destiny in Part Four of this series about following our passions.

Unlike Newport, Puett separates the idea of passion and desire from destiny. This is important because they are two different concepts. To be fair, in the epilogue of “So Good They Can’t Ignore You” Newport explicitly talks about destiny as well.

A Side Note About Order and Chaos

In an area I won’t be covering in this series, but it’s very intriguing: Newport and Puett disagree on the idea of orderliness and chaos. Newport is arguing for making a logical choice in order to get a good result. Puett argues that the world is chaotic and you aren’t assured of a good result, so the wisest course is to follow your interests and curiosities – among many other courses of action he suggests.

My opinion? I’m not sure how the universe works. I do my best to make logical choices that will have good results. AND, in my experience, following my interests and curiosities even when they haven’t seemed logical have led to wonderful results.

Coming Up…

How can passion help us answer the question, “What’s next?”

If we don’t start with passion, can we gain it? If so, how? Does passion plus skill lead to success? Or does skill lead to success which leads to passion?

In Part Two, we’ll look at the Passion Continuum. Later, we’ll discuss various ways into passion and how we can use passion as a guide.

The Passion Series

Part One: Follow Your Passion?
Part Two: Where Are You on The Passion Continuum?
Part Three: Six Sure Fire Ways to Get More Interested

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Can We Enjoy Our Personality Differences More if We Look At Those Differences As Sources of Humor?

August 9, 2016 by April

The ultimatum

This July, I took an improv class from Paul Vaillancourt, co-founder of IO West in Los Angeles.  The class was based on his  Triangle of the Scene. One part of the triangle is “character,” yours and theirs, or as Paul called the various attributes that make up character, the “big playable gift.”

I was struck by this advice, because I imagined applying it to my real life. To make the scene more funny, and more enjoyable to watch and be in, Paul said:

  • Don’t try to change the other character.
  • Don’t try to teach the other character.
  • Don’t change your character.
  • Just let your character interact with the other character.
  • The humor comes from two different characters and how those differences rub up against each other.

What if I did that in my life?

Could it be that the irreconcilable differences in my family that have seemed so sad have the potential to be… funny?! Maybe I didn’t get cast into a cosmic tragedy, maybe I have been cast in a cosmic comedy!

What if I let go of trying to change the people in my family or trying to teach them, and also let go of trying to flow with them by making my own personality less pronounced and more malleable? What if, just for the comedy of it, we let our very different personalities rub up against each other, or smash up against each other, and let the hilarity ensue?*

What do you think?

What would happen if you took Paul Vaillancourt’s character advice for improv and applied it to your real life?

*I’m saying this part a little tongue in cheek. Relationship dynamics, especially among family members are very complex, even so, I think that looking at our differences as potential sources of comedy could be a way for me to enjoy those differences in my family more than I currently do.

Filed Under: Improv Wisdom Tagged With: comedy, family, humor, improv, personality type, relationships

Spend Yourself On The Work Before You

February 6, 2012 by April

Dear One,

Don’t waste life in doubts and fears; spend yourself on the work before you, well assured that the right performance of this hour’s duties will be the best preparation for the hours and ages that will follow it.

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

Filed Under: Inspiration Tagged With: anxiety, fear, quotes, Ralph Waldo Emerson, work

You Are Meant To Be

January 30, 2012 by April

Dear One,

You are meant for a purpose. You are meant to be.

Raise Up by Ledisi

Lyrics

I’m looking around and I see more of the same
People looking for purpose, someone to blame
As I’m on my quest for fame, every day the places change
As they humble trying to play the game

I figured it out, my dreams are bigger than me
Been taken much further than I thought I would be
I’m so glad that I believe that God has plans for me
Mama told me it will happen, you’ll see
Yeah, yeah

Time for you to raise up
Time for you to get right
Time for you to get up
Time for you to be loud
Time for you to raise up
Get up, stand up, raise up

You gotta know who you are
You are meant for a purpose
What is meant for you is meant to be
You are meant to be

I couldn’t move forward ’til I let go off the past
I needed my freedom, I needed it bad
If we all could just forgive
It’s the only way to live
I have more now than I ever had

There is a path and it is written for you
Take your time to find the truth
What do you have to lose?
It’s time for you to choose
No one else can do it for you

Time for you to raise up
Time for you to get right
Time for you to get up
Time for you to be loud
Time for you to raise up
Get up, stand up, raise up

You gotta know who you are
You are meant for a purpose
What is meant for you is meant to be
You are meant to be

When judgment day comes, have you given your best?
Has the world been changed by the love that you left?
Forgive those who trespassed against you
Rise through the pain, let it go
What happened is done, it’s time to live again

You gotta know who you are
You are meant for a purpose
What is meant for you is meant to be
You are meant to be

Time for you to raise up
Time for you to get right
Time for you to get up
Time for you to be loud
Time for you to raise up
Get up, stand up, raise up

You gotta know who you are
You are meant for a purpose
What is meant for you is meant to be
You are meant to be

Time for you to raise up
Time for you to get right
Time for you to get up
Time for you to be loud
Time for you to raise up
Get up, stand up, raise up

You gotta know who you are
You are meant for a purpose
Raising for you is meant to be
You are meant to be

Raise up, get up
Raise up, get up
Raise up, get up
Raise up, get up
Raise up, get up
Raise up, get up

Filed Under: Inspiration Tagged With: Ledisi, lyrics, music, Raise Up

Get Up

January 30, 2012 by April

Dear One,

What are you afraid of? Don’t you know what you’re made of? You are one of God’s greatest creations. Take this invitation now.

Get Up by Mary Mary

Lyrics

Layin’ Low
PRESS’N pause
Sleeping long
Slow motion
Gonna do
Shoulda, coulda, woulda done
Excuses

What are you afraid of?
Don’t you know what you’re made of?
One of God’s greatest creations
Take this invitation now

Get Up
‘Cause you can’t stop
Get Up
Got a lot to do
24 hours
almost gone
Get Up
Don’t sit there
Get Up
If you wanna get there
Clocks don’t stop and
Time won’t wait

He said, She said
They said, What do you say?
It’s your dreams
your choice
your time
your life
So don’t you
don’t you
miss it

What are you afraid of?
Don’t you know what you’re made of?
One of God’s greatest creations
Take this invitation now

Get Up
‘Cause you can’t stop
Get Up
Got a lot to do
24 hours
almost gone
Get Up
Don’t sit there
Get Up
If you wanna get there
Clocks don’t stop and
Time won’t wait

Welcome to the rest of your life
from now on, just try
to live more, want more, work a little harder
dance more, laugh more, be a little smarter
hug a little longer, love a little stronger
you’ve been down but now it’s time to

Get Up
‘Cause you can’t stop
Get Up
Got a lot to do
24 hours
almost gone
Get Up
Don’t sit there
Get Up
If you wanna get there
Clocks don’t stop and
Time won’t wait (2x)

One more time, Say…
Get Up (x9)

Filed Under: Inspiration Tagged With: Get Up, lyrics, Mary Mary, music, video

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